Epictetus on sucking up!
Epictetus was a stoic philosopher who lived in the 1st - 2nd century. He was a very wise man and as a freed man, knew much about how we enslave ourselves. His views about sucking up to other people are well worth reading (and I paraphrase....): When a man cringes before another, or flatters that person despite having holding other views he is a slave. If he holds a position of authority and sucks up to a more powerful person, then he is slave on a large scale. If he is a common man and does so for a paltry meal, then he is a slave on a small scale .